Ah, this hits. I grew up in a town of that size/type. And just a few weeks ago one of my old besties from elementary school, who is an out lesbian who has moved back home with her wife posted a crazy “women’s sports are not for weak men” meme, which subsequently blew up on her social media. And I wanted to wade in so much- I mean this was my friend who wanted to be a fighter pilot with me in the Top Gun days when all the other girls just wanted Tom Cruise. How different might our lives have been had the librarians been like you instead of hiding away books with any hint of any kind of premarital sex in them. But we’re all 45 now. And another friend from high school jumped in there. . . I will say that when we went west this summer the park that we camped in outside Gresham OR had a rainbow flag prominently displayed and my daughter and I were very psyched on it.